When you feel that you like/love/whatever someone, just go and ask
"Will you be my girlfriend/boyfriend?"
Do NOT say "I love you".
The thing we want from a relationship is twosome, fun time, someone to talk to, someone whom I can tell about my day-to-day issues and have a hearty laugh on things in general.
Let's keep the other complexities of the world out of it then. Naming it as a relationship/commitment, and thinking that you 'love' him/her just complicates the matters. All sorts of issues like Marriage, Parents, Ego, etc etc etc come into picture then.
These are matters of adults and best handled by them. This is the time to have fun. Just do that. We already have enough work/study pressure on us to keep us tensed. Let's not add another reason to our worries.
Cool.....
ReplyDeleteis this directed at someone specific ?? :P if it is then well directed
ReplyDelete@sid : something had to trigger the chain of thoughts. I hope it was well taken, though.
ReplyDelete@DayDreamer: It isn't as cool as it seems. Perhaps a detailed post will explain what lead to these conclusions :)
of course..i am used to this now :P
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